Wo baarish ka paani ,

Lauta do mujhe mere bachpan ki kahaani

 

Lelo yeh kagaz ke tukde

Lelo yeh nashe ka paani

Kamaane aur kharchne mein guzar rahi hai meri jawaani

Wo kagaz ki kashti

Wo baarish ka paani

Lauta do mujhe mere bachpan ki kahaani

 

Lelo yeh kagaz ki aiyashi

Lelo ye zindagi ki manmaani

Do pal ka chain na de, kaisi hai yeh zindagaani

Wo kagaz ki kashti

Wo baarish ka paani

Lauta do mujhe mere bachpan ki kahaani...

Malhotra's wife. The movie showcases a perfect marriage, every feature of a perfect marriage which you can associate with a perfect marriage are given importance. Two cute girls, one of whom is Urmila Matondkar who made her debut as a child actor in this movie, a big house, a well earning husband who is an appreciated architect, a beautiful wife who keeps everything in order and is a good friend to everyone. In this perfect scenario , the second word that of Indu's friend Chanda is introduced. The character of Chanda is played by Tanuja, she is the influencer and very beautifully she represents the society which influences our actions.

So there you are, all grown up waiting for your prince charming or for that matter a perfect girl. But unfortunately the cupid seems to have turned a deaf ear to your love requests. To add to the frustration; your best friend has a partner, your brainless siblings have found someone and almost all of your school friends have settled down or are settling down while your non existent love life has become a pipping hot topic of discussion everywhere.


But even in such atrocious situation, you have not yet lost hope. You are still waiting for love, that unending feeling of butterflies in your stomach and what not.

Well as far as I think, love is becoming more and more of a distant dream in this age of too much sharing, liking and re-tweeting. I cant help but ask the cupid - Does love in its pure still really exist? And even if it does, how long does it last? And the main question is how do you find love in this crazy age where you can add anything to your online shopping cart expect true love!

Those long walks on the beach or on a cold night are substituted by hangouts in overly priced coffee houses and fast food joints. Do we really need French fries to have a conversation?

So since the old ways are kicked out , following are the ways which I think can help you find love in 2015 -

1. Have a realistic social media account - It can be on Facebook , Twitter or the likes where you can and should showcase your emotions. Because you see these days everything needs to be showcased to prove its existence , except brains! You don't have to put everything you do on the social media like I just pooped updates and bathroom selfies are a total no no if you really want to attract love.

2. Be friends with a lot of people online, irrespective of the fact that you detest them in your personal life or for that matter you have never even met them in the first place. But these are called friends and your future partner might be a common friend hiding from the cupid

3. Make sure you post amazing pictures of yourself, doing various stuff. Travelling to different places, eating cuisine, food photography etc.

4. Don't be a creep. Do not sent sex texts or messages to anyone under any pretext! That will be the end of any hope for you !

If none of the above works for you, I will advice you dump internet for a few days and meet actual people around, like it used to happen ages ago and you definitely will find one.

Because the heart finds what at times even google or internet cannot, i.e. Love!  

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It's better to take advice when it is available...
#life #advice #short #oneliner

Well at times the cupid just misses the target... leaving two souls happy while two other are pushed into a valley of darkness ...Do comment your thoughts on this one...






#love #life #cupid #madness #sad #short #oneliner 

Sometimes even the simplest of situations result into a plethora of emotions, and those emotions ruin everything especially if they belong to your past...


#life #story #love #passion #gift #past #emotions 

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So to start with, I was in this blistering tooth ache more than a month. Armed with work and social duties , I kind of prayed that the pain vanished magically and that my tooth would heal itself.


Nothing of the sorts did happen, to make things worse I started to feel a cavity and I tell you that's the worse thing you can feel with your tongue. So in pain and knowing that this hole in my tooth was going to now burn a hole in my pocket, I gathered all the courage I could and feeling no less than a Game of Throne's character who was ready for a war, I entered the dentist's clinic.


Appointment 1 -
To my dismay, it was pitch dark and I could him sitting there with all his assistants and helpers and I felt more scared than ever. It was like I was being punished by my tooth itself for not taking an early action and now my tooth and me were in this love hate relationship where all things lined up were making sure that the pain did not go away. After waiting for an hour, the electricity did not come back neither did his inverter come to life so I had to leave with my painful tooth in the hope of getting it sorted in the next appointment.

Appointment 2 -
Again no electricity and the appointment got postponed. I was now feeling my tooth jumping with joy as if saying " You deserve this, I kept hinting you take me to a dentist and you ignored me completely". Next appointment taken and patience level crossed


Appointment 3
Finally the procedure starts. First the dentist checks my tooth, its just next to the wisdom tooth so you can imagine his struggle to reach it. Post an dental X ray and what not he broke the news to me, that my tooth was almost broken due to the cavity and that we would have to go for a root canal. My feelings were similar to that of an actress who was just been told to do and intimate scene with an actor she detested personally. I had no option so I said continue and it opened the floodgates to sittings, a total of 5 sittings and a cost which was giving me a pain in other parts of the body.


So the sitting one began, I was seated on a chair which to me looked like a torture chamber seat from early 70's on which nasty things would happen to human beings. The dentist wore gloves and tested a mini drill and a chill ran down my spine. He then injected the area near my emotionally charged tooth and I screamed as the needle penetrated by gums, this is the kind of pain criminals should be given. Post the injection I did not feel a thing, all I could see is the dentist working with a mini drill inside my mouth, freaking hell. This is why I get scared of a dentist, because he is the only one who can put a running drill into your mouth and all you can do is wait for him to complete his war with the cavity.

30 minutes later , I saw him with a chip of my tooth and was amount about to faint but I managed to be awake and sane. Few minutes later the first sitting was done. With the right side of my face and whole of my brain completely numb, I sat there clueless while he began to explain what he had just done and what was left to be done. All I understood was that he had removed the cavity and would need another sitting for a similar cleaning.

I returned home with a poker face and could not feel any pain, in my head I was rejoicing the fact that there was no hint of any pain. By my celebration did not last long as just about an hour later my numbness faded and my tooth woke up only to realize that half of it was drilled. The pain was unbearable and I could not speak or smile or eat for that matter and had to do all of these under social compulsions.


The second sitting after this was similar, more drilling and more pain. Tablets making me dizzy and light headed, I am now awaiting the third sitting.

From all of this I realized one thing, Even our life needs a root canal time and again, doesn't it? We need to empty it of the cavities of ego, anger and all things bad so that we don't destroy the whole of it, even if we have lost a few moments of peace.

Like in a root canal, I learnt that pain is essential and so is trust. Someone might be giving you pain, but you have to at times understand that the pain might be an outcome of their care; it might be their attempt to make you a better person. 

And that the holes in our lives need to be filled before they swallow our entire existence.



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This is what I like about Black & White Photography, it gives immense character to even the most vanilla and routine things

My Black and White Photography Portfolio - #3 Lonely
Image #3


A seashell stuck out of place... And that's exactly when we feel lonely , don't we ? When we are stuck in doing something which we are not meant to ....

My Black & White Photography Portfolio - Scary games the places play !
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While clicking something in Black & White, the photographer inside me gets really scared at times. Because at times these places and things start appearing really scary , like this one. Its soothing yet scary at the same time, I can actually make myself write something scary if I stare at this picture for a long time...

My Black and White Photography Portfolio

Waves which make you nostalgic... #sea #nostalgia 

It gives you hope when you have a break down
It gives you strength when when you have lost all counts
It gives you courage to fight life's bloodhounds 
But when it grows beyond your mind
It starts controlling your actions and makes you blind
It then takes away the hope, strength and courage
And replaces them with a fear which is one of its kind
We should learn to handle our beliefs with care 
We should learn to control them before they become someone's nightmare
We should learn to observe our response
We should learn about beliefs and beyond...

But they have one thing which is definite...and it shows... LOVE...